Was the Will Smith slap staged? Let's get your hot tea ready and we will dive right into the conspiracy theory of the Oscar slap in this episode of the #LemonTeaPodcast! What an insane Coachella story! We will definitely bring Dustin back for future episodes!ĭon’t forget to follow us on our socials! All links below!įor any business opportunity please contact us on the links #lemonteapodcast #lemon #lemontea #podcast #musicfestival #rave #influencer #funny #storytime #peaceandlove #88rising #lifechangingexperience #lifegoal #dojacat #joji Our special guest Dustin is going to share his Coachella experience in this episode of the LemonTeaPodcast! This is gonna be one hella crazy episode!!! 00:00 Intro, special guest Dustin! You, as the child, may need to blatantly say, "Here's what I understand, and here's where you need to help me understand." If you can do this, you'll let your parent(s) know exactly what you're expecting and how they can support you.Drugs, alcohol and bitches.
My own personal rule of thumb in addressing my gay life with my kids was-share based on what they can understand. As much as parents try to shield kids from the truth, sharing the truth must happen at some point. Also, you may have to do this several times before they quit using you as a pawn.ĭiscomfort is par for the course, but doesn’t mean you can’t get your answers. If you feel caught between them (which is no healthier for adult children than for younger children), then let your folks know and make your voice loud and clear. You might end up being the bigger "adult" right now because your parents are acting like spoiled little children as they process their own feelings. Unfortunately, this big life explosion that's put Mom and Dad in different corners, often causes you to feel caught in the middle. Anyone who tries to silence your feelings needs a time out of their own! Truth is, the sooner you and Dad (and Mom, for that matter) start having honest talks about the very "for real" gay stuff going down around ya, the sooner you'll get your feelings out in the open and the less you'll feel like a bomb about to explode.Ĥ. Dad's little swimmers don't really determine your sexual orientation anymore than Mom's patiently waiting little eggs do.ģ.
Wires get crossed, x's dance with y's differently in the chromosomal make up and. Ok, that probably doesn't make a lot of sense unless you stop and digest it, but the truth is, just because you may have a gay or lesbian parent doesn't mean they passed the genetic flow down to you. Plus, you can always go to YouTube and find hundreds of videos from people just like you! Support is here.Ģ. Check out Family Equality Council, Human Rights Campaign (HRC), PFLAG, and even a pretty cool group just for kids with gay parents- COLAGE. As hard as it might be to talk about having a gay parent (unless you already find it uber cool), realize that you do have peeps, buddies, homies that you can turn to. So let's break down some pretty hip tricks to help you handle this rather startling news in your life:ġ. Now, of course, along with the truth bomb that Pops just dropped in your lap, comes initial feelings of anger, confusion, and fear, along with questions like, "Does this mean I'm gay too?" All of this yucky stuff that just bubbled over the brim of the pot of your life is enough to make any grown adult cry, let alone you, the adult child of this newly out grown man. Hear me roar!" as beautifully as finally stepping into your truest, fullest, most authentic self. Even with all those roadblocks, nothing says, "Here I am.
Sure he took the winding, crooked path to getting to his truth, but life is all about twists and turns, potholes and delays.